ODB Log prints nothing:
 [2021-04-16 18:26:25 #1 server]
 Server on port 10054 has started by 26621@testing 
TCP Dump over all interfaces did not print anything (assuming no network connections were done) 
sudo tcpdump -ni lo port 10054
 We had also strace running to print all network related kernel calls from process:
 Based on that 2 times a during day the ODB Server went crazy, created cuple of threads and started creating sockets in some loop.
 This took about minute, so I will try to create java thread dump during that. 
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.246356 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 46494<TCPv6:[332039994]>
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.250400 setsockopt(46494<TCPv6:[332039994]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.253569 getsockopt(46494<TCPv6:[332039994]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.256978 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 52186<TCPv6:[332039995]>
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.262088 setsockopt(52186<TCPv6:[332039995]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.265851 getsockopt(52186<TCPv6:[332039995]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.269934 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 55389<TCPv6:[332039996]>
[pid 26650] 02:48:00.274090 setsockopt(55389<TCPv6:[332039996]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
...
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.166210 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 80620<TCPv6:[332185641]>
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.168344 setsockopt(80620<TCPv6:[332185641]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.170243 getsockopt(80620<TCPv6:[332185641]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.172080 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 80621<TCPv6:[332185642]>
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.173949 setsockopt(80621<TCPv6:[332185642]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.175771 getsockopt(80621<TCPv6:[332185642]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 02:49:20.177615 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 80622<TCPv6:[332185643]> 
 Next occurence couple hours later. 
strace: Process 33702 attached
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.202012 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 11<TCPv6:[284630924]>
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.206298 setsockopt(11<TCPv6:[284630924]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.208845 getsockopt(11<TCPv6:[284630924]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.211548 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 12<TCPv6:[284893387]>
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.216027 setsockopt(12<TCPv6:[284893387]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.220703 getsockopt(12<TCPv6:[284893387]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.225259 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 13<TCPv6:[284893388]>
[pid 26650] 22:12:27.227884 setsockopt(13<TCPv6:[284893388]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
....
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.024203 getsockopt(6783<TCPv6:[284977278]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.026705 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 6784<TCPv6:[284977279]>
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.029276 setsockopt(6784<TCPv6:[284977279]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.031247 getsockopt(6784<TCPv6:[284977279]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.033553 socket(AF_INET6, SOCK_STREAM, IPPROTO_IP) = 6785<TCPv6:[284977280]>
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.035586 setsockopt(6785<TCPv6:[284977280]>, SOL_IPV6, IPV6_V6ONLY, [0], 4) = 0
[pid 26650] 22:13:17.037957 getsockopt(6785<TCPv6:[284977280]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, [8]) = 0
Here is example of strace log during standard connection made from our app:
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.478979 accept(7<TCPv6:[:::10054]>, {sa_family=AF_INET6, sin6_port=htons(37970), inet_pton(AF_INET6, "::ffff:127.0.0.1", &sin6_addr), sin6_flowinfo=htonl(0), sin6_scope_id=0}, [28]) = 80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.485544 getsockname(80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>, {sa_family=AF_INET6, sin6_port=htons(10054), inet_pton(AF_INET6, "::ffff:127.0.0.1", &sin6_addr), sin6_flowinfo=htonl(0), sin6_scope_id=0}, [28]) = 0
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.485673 getsockname(80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>, {sa_family=AF_INET6, sin6_port=htons(10054), inet_pton(AF_INET6, "::ffff:127.0.0.1", &sin6_addr), sin6_flowinfo=htonl(0), sin6_scope_id=0}, [28]) = 0
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.490411 setsockopt(80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>, SOL_TCP, TCP_NODELAY, [1], 4) = 0
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.490627 setsockopt(80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, 8) = 0
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.670835 setsockopt(80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>, SOL_TCP, TCP_NODELAY, [1], 4) = 0
[pid 26632] 12:04:35.670983 setsockopt(80623<TCPv6:[::ffff:127.0.0.1:10054->::ffff:127.0.0.1:37970]>, SOL_SOCKET, SO_LINGER, {l_onoff=0, l_linger=0}, 8) = 0 I tried to start ObjectDB Server on my working computer with MacOS for few hours without connecting to it, and it is also doing the same thing. 
 Lsof output from macOS looks differently: 
java    16328 thommy   16u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab22f022b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   17u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab743c22b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   18u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab743fbab       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   19u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab743f54b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   20u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab743eeeb       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   21u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab743e88b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   22u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab743e22b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   23u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab7441bab       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   24u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab744154b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   25u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab7440eeb       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
java    16328 thommy   26u   IPv6 0x88d67f9ab744088b       0t0                 TCP *:* (CLOSED)
 For me those are closed connections which are still wasting system resources, and I have 8000 of them for few hours. 
Please try it yourself, if it does not behave like this also for You.
 For me it's sufficient to just start the server and leave it running for several hours.